I will admit that I am interested in this question for reasons other than pure intellectual curiosity. I been in a few situations where I have listened to atheist youth discuss their experiences with discrimination and bigotry at the hands of the Christian majority. And while I have every reason to believe that many atheists do indeed face this because of their atheism, there have been times - not many but a few - where I have wanted to ask a different sort of question.
Is it possible that at least some of what you have faced is as due to your tattoos, piercings, unusual attire, and blue hair as it is to your atheism?Based on my own experiences, the experiences other atheists have shared with me over the years, and scientific data I have reviewed on the attitudes the public holds toward atheists in the U.S., I do not question the reality of anti-atheist bigotry and discrimination. Adolescents are kicked out of their parents' homes for being atheists. Employees are fired for being atheists. People are physically assaulted for expressing atheism. This is all too real. And while I realize that nobody's nonconventional appearance or attire warrants this sort of hatred, I do wonder if some particular instances of discrimination, bigotry, harassment, and the like might be prompted by more than atheism.
I find this topic a bit of a challenge to discuss because I worry that people will misunderstand my musings and accuse me of promoting conformity. Conformity is about the last thing (after perhaps religion) that I'd want to promote. I detest it, and while I personally choose not to promote it through my appearance or attire, I've always respected those who do.
It was not terribly long ago that I was listening to a particular atheist woman with blue hair, tattoos, and piercings share how difficult it was for her to maintain friendships here in the South because her friends typically ended the relationship once they learned of her atheism. Having had exactly the same experience a few times myself, I could relate quite well. But over a few interactions, I noticed that she was loud, domineering, self-centered, and rather rude in conversations with others. She also had rather objectionable body odor (something I didn't really understand about not wanting to go along with the conventional expectations surrounding hygiene). In any case, I found myself not wanting to have anything to do with her, and I am fairly confident that it was not because of her atheism.
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