Of all the posts I've written here, I would have rated this one as among the least likely to be controversial. And yet, the post prompted one of the strongest negative reactions I've received from another atheist blogger. I seem to have hit a nerve without knowing why. Here's how Austin Cline (About.com) approached the subject on Twitter:
I must have screwed up big time to have prompted such a response from a fellow blogger. Austin fired off a couple more tweets.
I wasn't sure what to make of this. What had I done to elicit such a strong response? Had I made "the exact same argument used by Christians for why they aren't really homophobic" in my post? Do most Christians argue that they should be called anti-gay bigots instead of homophobes? This was my point - that we should label the hatred and bigotry as hatred and bigotry and not confuse things with the phobia label.
I still wasn't sure what was going on, so I guessed that Austin might be reacting to the distinction I was drawing between fear and bigotry. I responded:

Our miscommunication here was clear. I was referring to scientific research on bigotry and prejudice as implicating more than just fear; Austin was referring to anecdotal reports and personal experience to support the role of fear. I recognize that fear is relevant; I just don't think it is the whole story. He went on:

While I think that fear is relevant to hate and bigotry, I am reasonably certain that other factors are involved as well. I'm also well aware that I'm picky when it comes to terminology. I have a difficult time turning off the scientist in me who knows the importance of precise definitions. At this point, I still wasn't sure what I had said that was so disappointing or why Austin seemed to feel so strongly about this. So I asked.

Austin replied this morning:

I fear I might be overly dense here, as he certainly seems to believe that he's been clear in explaining why I was wrong to write what I wrote. But I see no evidence in his tweets that my argument (i.e., we should be more precise in how we talk about hatred and bigotry) is "demonstrably wrong." I ever suggested nor would I ever suggest that what he wants to call homophobia does not exist. Again, my point was that we should call anti-gay bigotry or other forms of hate bigotry or hate and not -phobia. As I noted above, I've never heard of a Christian asking to be called a bigot instead of a homophobe.
When Austin suggested that I "revisit" my post, I don't think he's suggesting I rewrite it. I think he's saying that it wasn't clear and that I ought to clarify. I hope I've done that here. Once again, my point was that I find terms like Islamophobia and homophobia misleading because they are not phobias and are not necessarily all about fear (although fear certainly may play a role). If the goal of using them is to describe hate and bigotry directed and these groups, I would prefer labels like "bigotry" or "hate." It isn't that I somehow think these negative attitudes don't exist or aren't problematic; it is just that I'd rather be more precise in how we talk about them. That was the only argument I was making.