"I'll pray for you." "You're in my prayers." What does this mean? I derive no benefit from your prayers. If you want to pray, admit that you are doing it for yourself. You derive the benefit - it lets you feel superior, helps you relax, gives you the impression that you are not alone in the universe, etc. But don't tell me that it is for me. In fact, don't tell me about it at all. It turns my stomach. Maybe your statement is intended to bring me comfort, but it highlights your ignorance and leads me to feel a mixture of pity and repulsion toward you.